What are signs of being close to another?

“The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They are in each other all along.” ~ Rumi.

From what i understand in my limited capacity, signs of Closeness at deeper level means-

1.Physical closeness becomes immaterial.

2. One grows in that relationship

3.One does not keep expectations and there is no ego in that relationship.

4.The time, space and matter becomes insignificant when interacting with that person.

5..The physical apperance, age and the superficialities of body become irrelevant.

6. One grows beyond attachments and dependency. One becomes independent.

7. It almost feels that one can communicate with that person in silence- words are not needed

8. It’s that person’s soul that one loves. It may remind me that- ‘your soul and my soul are very old friends’

9.Perhaps, one unknowingly senses that the Reality behind their individual personalities is the Reality behind entire Universe.

10.Love becomes unconditional.

“Your name is on my tongue.

Your image in in my sight.

Your memory is in my heart.

Where can i send the words that i write!”

~Rumi